Not all kids trick-or-treat the same: Autism BC

With kids heading out to trick-or-treat this evening, Autism BC reminds us that not all kids experience Halloween night the same way.

It can be tough for children with autism, who might get more easily tired and anxious while going door-to-door. Meeting strangers can be stressful, and they may not want to say, “Trick or treat,” at every house, but that doesn’t mean they can’t have a wonderful holiday.

Autism BC has tips for parents of children with autism that can help make the night as enjoyable as possible.

“Maybe the child doesn’t have the verbal skills, or perhaps they have anxiety about talking in front of others. If someone judges you or your child for not speaking, it might be time to cross that house off the Halloween route, in my opinion. However, if your child can verbally say ‘thank you,’ or show some signs of appreciation for receiving a treat, that is always a nice gesture,” said Lisa Watson, Regional Coordinator for Interior BC, through an Autism BC statement.

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Parents should keep their expectations in check and respect their kids’ limits. To make the trick-or-treating process smoother, they can also start by visiting the homes of friends and family who are more familiar.

“You may have trick-or-treated for hours when you were your child’s age. Stop comparing your child’s experience to yours,” said Watson. “If you only make it to a few houses, consider that a success! Sometimes, just the ‘getting out of the house’ part can be the toughest.”

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A friendly reminder that Halloween should be inclusive for all. Please keep these important things in mind as you welcome children for treats tonight.#beaccepting #beinclusive #bekindhttps://t.co/dNproBRwAd pic.twitter.com/3NCh1dtPK4

— Autism Canada (@AutismCanada) October 31, 2021

Watson also recommends you pack extra snacks and candy you’ve made sure is safe, in case the little ones get hungry and don’t want to wait until they’re home to check and eat it.

“Screaming child on Mrs. Smith’s front lawn, versus his/her face and costume smeared with chocolate? I would take the last option any day,” she said.

The trick-or-treating might end early, but Autism BC says that’s perfectly okay.